Don't just automatically open CW's - first consider if you actually want to read the post based on what the CW says! That's self care, pal.
@Robby a good message for all of us (definitely me at least)
@SallyStrange i've gotten better about it, but i still do it a lot. i try to remind myself whenever i open a CW that i should have known would upset me and... it upsets me.
@Robby definitely, it is a little automatic for me. And I'm happier when I'm more thoughtful and leave some of them alone.
@Robby I'm at the point of not automatically opening CW'ed media because of all the times it turned out to be something innocuous, like, ha ha, made you look!
@Robby And rather the point of them.
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